New Serious dating for intentional people

Match with intent.
Date with purpose.

CommitMate is built for people who actually want a relationship — not endless swiping. Plan real dates, build real trust, and move forward with clarity.

✅ ID verification 💬 Less chatting, more dating ⭐ Accountability ratings 🪙 Coins = intention

Where honesty meets intention

CommitMate is a mindful dating experience designed to move you from “match” to a real plan.

The problem

Modern dating rewards scrolling.

Most apps optimize for time spent swiping — not meaningful relationships. CommitMate flips that.

Our approach

Intentional actions, real outcomes.

Coins add purpose to requests, date planning creates momentum, and post-date ratings protect the vibe.

Features designed for real relationships

Everything in CommitMate is built to encourage respect, clarity, and intentional dating.

Trust

ID Verification

Keep the community real with quick verification and stronger safety standards.

Intention

Coins = Commitment

Right swipes cost coins so date requests are thoughtful — quality over quantity.

Momentum

Plan the Date

Move from match to a real plan with date proposals built right into the experience.

Accountability

Ratings & Reviews

Post-date ratings reward respectful behavior and help keep the culture healthy.

Clarity

Dealbreakers & Values

Compatibility filters focus on what actually matters — values, goals, and standards.

Respect

Less Noise

Fewer dead chats. More real-world connection. Built for adults who know what they want.

How it works

Four simple steps from profile to a real date — with intention built into each one.

Get verified

Quick ID verification helps keep CommitMate authentic and safe.

Match with intent

Send date requests thoughtfully — coins discourage spam swiping.

Plan the date

Pick a day and time, suggest a spot, and move forward with clarity.

Accountability

Post-date ratings protect the vibe and reward respectful behavior.

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